In winter, it is often dark in Mongolia. We did this on weekends—leaving before sunrise, visiting the addresses provided by family doctors. We spoke with patients, their relatives, and carers, recording everything on video. We returned home after dark. In the evenings, I played the tapes, sat in front of the TV, and watched everything we had filmed that day.
The stories were different. For example, an elderly couple: the wife had cancer, and her husband was caring for her. They survived solely on a pension, which was not even enough to buy a litre of milk. The woman could no longer eat and could not tolerate the smell of meat. The husband said, ‘She asks for milk, but I don’t even have money for that.’ At the time, a litre of milk cost
500 tugriks.There was a 38-year-old man with
obliterating endarteritis. He had both of his legs amputated. He described it as feeling like hundreds of needles were piercing his amputated limbs—the pain was unbearable. Once, he got prescribed ten ampoules of morphine, which lasted for two days. When he returned asking for more, he was refused: by law, it was permitted only once. He told us that he had tried to take his own life twice because he could no longer endure the pain. I still have the cassette with his interview on it.
We met an older woman being cared for by her daughter. To earn some money, the daughter sewed on an old machine while her mother slept. I remember her saying, ‘I don’t know how to go on. I am a single mother, I pay for my son’s education, I care for my mother, and I’ve been unemployed for two years. I don’t know how we will survive.’
I watched these recordings repeatedly and reached several significant conclusions.
First: Mongolia desperately needs palliative care.
Second: Every family—anywhere in the world, regardless of income—will, sooner or later, face a situation in which someone close needs palliative support. It is inevitable: if a person is born, they will eventually die. It is fortunate if it happens quickly and without pain, but that is not always the case.
Third: Access to pain relief, especially morphine, must be ensured. Ten ampoules for two days is not adequate care—it is cruelty.
Fourth: Palliative care is not just about medicine; it also involves social support. Families caring for a bedridden person often live in poverty and require assistance not only from doctors but also from social services—including financial aid and care.
Fifth: Palliative care is not just for cancer patients. People with chronic, neurological, vascular, and age-related conditions also need care, support, and pain relief.