Roman: Now we have a quickfire round. Short questions—short answers.
Question 1: What does palliative care mean to you?
Marius: Oh, that’s a tricky one... I’ve even forgotten the English word for it. You know, a star in the sky that shows the way. A guiding star—that is what palliative care means to me.
Question 2: Are you afraid of dying?
Marius: Of course I am. It’s very human and natural.
Question 3: What does Lithuania signify to you?
Marius: Everything. Even if infrastructure or other aspects might be superior abroad, home still revolves around society—friends, family, human connections.
And there is one more thing I find important. Our generation—I mean both you and me—grew up ‘in the old days’: we played outside, rode bicycles, and climbed trees. But at the same time, we became the first generation to learn how to live with modern technology. There is enormous potential in this transition, and for us, it is natural to be part of change.
I don’t want to be part of a change in another country. I enjoy travelling; I love seeing the world, but I genuinely want to help bring about change in my own country, in my own society.
Question 4: Is there a book, film, or person that has had the greatest influence on your understanding of care and compassion?
Marius: That’s a very good question. I couldn’t name just one person, as there were many. I had the privilege of attending a lecture by
Mary Baines while she was still alive, and it left a very strong impression on me.
Unfortunately, I never met
Cicely Saunders in person. She passed away five years before I arrived in the UK.
I am proud to call
Julie Ling my mentor. I learned a great deal from her about leadership, management, and working with the palliative care professional community. She is truly remarkable.
I should also mention a colleague I continue to work closely with—a brilliant palliative care specialist from Italy,
Simone Veronese.
And if I am completely honest, my greatest source of strength has always been my patients. Their resilience and their desire to live until the very end help me stay grounded and keep believing in what I do.