As mentioned, Robbie doesn’t manage self-care well, but he’s attentive to his team’s well-being. Imagine a scene: a resuscitation is underway, with several people working intensely—giving injections, performing intubation, and chest compressions. The room is filled with shouts, alarms, tension, and hope. Suddenly, the attending physician announces the time of death—and everything ceases.
The team has lost the battle. They can walk away, carrying the trauma inside, or they can pause for a moment of silence, recognising the loss. And it helps. I asked a friend, an ER doctor in Chicago, whether this happens in real life. ‘Yes, it happens,’ she said. ‘Especially when a child dies.’
That moment will resonate with many hospice and palliative care professionals. Even knowing that a patient will die doesn’t exempt them from grief—it still needs to be felt, ideally within the safety of a team and with psychological support. In The Pitt, such a person exists—a social worker providing urgent emotional support not only to patients but also to staff.